Are polygamy and pedophilia biblically wrong?

McCulloch

The reason that I bring this up is that christians and other religionists use the thin edge of the wedge argument against recognition of same sex marriage. Their argument usually goes something like this, "If we recognize same sex marriage then we will eventually have to allow polygamy and pedophilia." Saving the logical flaws of the thin edge of the wedge argument for another thread, there is an implication that christians believe that polygamy and pedophilia are worse sins than homosexuality.
As a humanist I agree with them on the point about pedophilia. Homosexual relations between consenting adults is a choice which cannot adversly affect anyone else. Pedophila is a crime. Sexual relationships should only be between consenting adults. Children are not capable of giving consent.
As a humanist I am more ambivalent about polygamy (and polyandry) but as a pragmatist, I don't believe that our society is ready for the legal quandary that multi marriages could pose.

What does the Bible say?

Polygamy is taught by example and is never explicitly forbidden. So, is Polygamy right or wrong from the biblical point of view? Can one be as absolute about the answer as bible believers are about homosexuality, which is explicitly condemned in the bible?

Pedophilia does not appear to be addressed directly in the bible. Now I know that sex with our own children is explicitly condemned in the bible. Sex with someone who is not your spouse is explicitly condemned in the bible. And sex with someone who is of the same sex as you are is explicitly condemned in the bible. But does the bible explicitly condemn marriage to a child? I think that we all agree that it should. But does it?Is there any validity to the position of opposing the recognition of same-sex marriages based on one's opposition to pedophilia? Do christians believe that the crime of pedophilia is as bad, worse or not as bad as the sin of homosexuality? Is there any biblical basis for that belief?

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2006 Most Civil Debater · Post 32: Sat Jan 20, 2007 11:35 am Post subject:

goat brings up an interesting point. We have not been very precise as far as what counts as 'pedophilia' with respect to age.

Regardless of whether we call it pedophilia or ebophilia, it seems to me the larger issue is the morality of the act or situation. I would agree that when the situation is manipulative or coercive, this is inherently immoral, and this is much more likely to arise the younger one party is, especially when there is a large age differential. Existing relationships are also important, for example, the existing father daughter relationship.

In the U.S., age 18 is considered the legal age of consent. In past times, it was quite common in many areas or cultures to have girls get married much younger than 18. Often, perhaps nearly always, this of course would have been done regardless of her feelings. I don't think we can say there was informed consent in these cases. However, it is probably also fair to say that girls in general accepted these situations due to their cultural upbringing. From our 20th century perspective, we might say they were 'brain-washed' or at least 'deceived or deluded' in thinking their condition as acceptable.

Now, hypothetically speaking, if in a particular culture the custom is for girls to get married at 12 to 15 but they are allowed complete freedom to choose, would we or should we consider this inappropriate? Would it matter if 13 year olds often ended up marrying 40 year olds?

Atheist · Post 33: Sat Jan 20, 2007 1:23 pm Post subject: