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Bullying on the website

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I bring up before the topic of bullying. I see another common example that can be fixed.

Why is it that a religion person starts a discussion that they are then forced to debate with 6 different atheists?

Is this fair? How would the atheist feel when their topic is attacked by 6 Christians?

Atheists should know that attacking someone as a group is nothing more than bullying.

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This is the nature of the debates here. Since many atheists don't make much claims, it's much simpler for them to attack an idea than defend an idea. But, as long as they are civil, it's not bullying. Consider it a privilege that so many people are willing to debate you. Or if you do want to limit the number of opponents, you can just debate in the head-to-head subforum.

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If you think it's bullying simply report it. Bullying is not allowed here.

Is it the fault of the atheist if there are more of them here than theists? Is it our fault that there is little unity amongst theists, whereas atheists often agree with each other?

One of the great things about this website is that everyone has a voice and everyone can express their views. If this were like many other websites, particularly Christian ones anyone whose beliefs clash with that of the administration team are usually shut down immediately. Be thankful that doesn't happen here.

Here everyone is welcome, not just the Chrisitans who agree with the site owner. It doesn't matter what religion. Even heretics are welcome here.

Bring in more of your friends, Swami. Gang up on the atheists. I'm sure my fellow atheist and agnostic friends here would be fine with that. They generally don't feel threatened by opposing viewpoints.

Society and its morals evolve and will continue to evolve. The bible however remains the same and just requires more and more apologetics and claims of "metaphors" and "symbolism" to justify it.

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There is much about this world that is mind boggling and impressive, but I see no need whatsoever to put it down to magical super powered beings.


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Re: Bullying on the website

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I totally agree with the author! I mean, the subject of online bullying, and arguments regarding religion, are really stupid. And people must understand this. We live in the 21st century, the year is 2020, ok the post is since 2019, however is it a very stupid and ''outdated'' subject to be debated, when we got all the technical progress nowadays. And all these debates, don't lead to anything good. We are smart beings, why should we bully each other like this? Because of these debates, people who own the websites have to remove fake google reviews . Ain't that stupid?
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PrincessJasmW wrote: Tue Oct 06, 2020 5:04 pm I totally agree with the author! I mean, the subject of online bullying, and arguments regarding religion, are really stupid. And people must understand this. We live in the 21st century, the year is 2020, ok the post is since 2019, however is it a very stupid and ''outdated'' subject to be debated, when we got all the technical progress nowadays.
In his OP Swami said:

"I bring up before the topic of bullying. I see another common example that can be fixed."

Which, as an example of bullying, he gives. . .

"Why is it that a religion person starts a discussion that they are then forced to debate with 6 different atheists?"

First of all, no one is forcing anyone to discuss anything. Nor is anyone forced to respond to everyone. If a member doesn't care to respond to another member that's their prerogative.
Secondly, as a debate forum, debating should be expected, shouldn't it? Of course it should, and the number of people, 1 or 20, doesn't change that, and in itself doesn't amount to bullying.

bul·ly1
/ˈbo͝olē/
verb
gerund or present participle: bullying

seek to harm, intimidate, or coerce (someone perceived as vulnerable).

"Is this fair? How would the atheist feel when their topic is attacked by 6 Christians?"

Certainly not being forced to, but then this isn't the situation. As an atheist I'd be delighted to bring up an issue that six Christians felt worth "attacking." I enjoy debating no matter what the odds, and, in fact, have even learned a thing or two from it.

"Atheists should know that attacking someone as a group is nothing more than bullying."

And I suggest he learn the difference between attacking and bullying, AND recognize that just because more than one member presents a challenge doesn't mean that everyone who does are operating as a group.

My suggestion is if Swami, or you, or anyone else dislikes being challenged they might be better off addressing the choir rather than posting on a debate forum.

Just a suggestion of course.



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Swami wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 10:16 pm
How would the atheist feel when their topic is attacked by 6 Christians?
A bit of research uncovered only one thread started by Swami during the time frame of this complaint. Only two atheists interacted with Swami on that thread and neither attacked him.


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