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Let me ask you then, in what way are they being stubborn, in what beliefs? Give examples.[/quote:d3a7a4336c]
There\'s no need to give specific examples of beliefs. You can see it in general. Pastors of churches for instance have their beliefs and are not open to correction by other Christians. I have seen this in a church my family once belonged to where other members of the church tried to correct the pastor, but he would not budge.
The stronger the faith, the less likely you are going to budge from a particular perspective. All you need to do is open your eyes and see.
One can even see on message boards such as this that those with strong faith will not budge on a belief no matter what. Those who do budge from a firmly held belief tend to be the ones that fall from the faith.
Open my eyes and see what? And you are right in saying that “those who do “budge� from a “firmly� held belief tend to be the ones that fall from the faith�. This also goes back to the importance of what you said earlier: “Those with weak faith are the type of people who switch their opinions regularly. They are easily swayed and if they hear a good argument, they will go along with it. They are easily lead.� (And since this is the case, I can’t help but ask, if given the chance, would you want to be someone with strong or weak faith?)
My questions to these two statements are, did they really believe? Was there faith strong in the first place? Some people use the whole religious garb to mask what they think they are lacking or need, no matter what it is, control, power, weakness, etc. Couldn’t that be a reason rather then “people of strong faith is being stubborn�? What the pastor was being stubborn on we’ll never know, but a pastor who is not willing to listen to the body of believers at that place of meeting isn’t really a pastor to me, he is someone who just likes to hear himself speak and make other people listen to him/her. That is being stubborn, yes, but even more so, prideful, not willing to listen or even to reason, not showing love or willing to be corrected. That is what he did. For me, that is not a person of “strong faith� but someone who uses faith as a coy to have power. That is logical because anyone can use religion, or anything for that matter, as such. But to say the people of strong faith are stubborn is a general statement.
I have seen people of strong faith, those who are humble, willing to learn, to grow, etc, but everyone is stubborn, as I said earlier. So to say that stubbornness is a characteristic of faith is an opinion, not a fact. Let us look more closely as to what you said: “The stronger your faith, the more stubborn you are as a person� and “You will find that those with the strongest faith are also very stubborn people when it comes to their values, habits, methods etc.�
1) You gage a person’s faith by a factor that is shared by people who aren’t of a “faith persuasion� too. I have meet non-Christians who are stubborn just as much as a Christian is. How can you use a gage like stubbornness when it is shared by people the world over?
2) You say that in a simple observation. How far has this observation gone? What type of people, background and such, have you observed to support this finding?
3) You said that you have done numerous studies on faith. Does this recent observation to your studies override all that you learned?
4) You said that you were one of the faithful. What made you decide to have a change of heart, so to speak? It isn’t the faith that is stubborn, but the person with the faith. I am sure in your studies you’ve come across this.
5) In your studies I am sure, at least I would like to think so, that you came across another definition of faith. It is called trust. If you have, what were your thoughts on it?
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Did you ever look more, or study, as to what faith is rather then saying that this is what it is due to your own stubbornness or your own point of view? [/quote:d3a7a4336c]
I have done numerous studies on faith over the years. This opinion I have now is a new one. It\'s an observation I have made in hindsight, having been one of the faithful myself. It was not my opinion on faith as a Christian.
Did you ever really believe or were you just told to believe and something “special happens�? I have seen that most of the time the Gospel is presented in that sad fashion. Saying that “everything will go well and God will bless you with so much� when they present the Gospel is not saying the whole truth of the Gospel.
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I mean, come on, we\'re all a bit stubborn as to what we say, we can\'t deny that. And that is where the \"finger pointing\" begins. Some times our view can be scewed by our own biased views and opinions. And that itself can be stubbornness. Not everyone of faith doesn\'t mind being called stubborn because they know that they can\'t change any one\'s mind but that one person. So your saying that \"I know people of faith don\'t like \"faith\" being compared to \"stubborness\" as it has negative connotations,\" is jumping the gun because not usually everyone, even those of no faith, don\'t like being called that. So your inclusive statement is wrongly stated. When you say things like that, you must say, \"some\", or \"not all\". That will give your argument more bearing in the end.[/quote:d3a7a4336c]
Fine, change my wording to \"some\" then. It really is irrelevant to my point.
Oh it is very relevant. When you use generalizing statements you narrow down your arguments as well as your hearers, or people you are trying to convince. I am not saying you are on here trying to convince anyone, it just shows that you are willing to look at the fuller picture that people are not all the same as we’d like them to be, it makes things easier when we do, unfortunately, it isn’t all true, or a fact really.
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So you say \"the comparison is very apt\" but you think the people of faith don\'t like it due to its negative connotations. And that is exactly what you enjoy about it and why you believe it. Otherwise, you would not have posted this thread.[/quote:d3a7a4336c]
Enjoy about it? I don\'t enjoy anything about it. It\'s a simple observation. It\'s not something I chose to believe, nor is it something I wish to believe. BTW, I didn\'t post this thread, Osteng did.
If that is true what you said, then have you sought out other explanations as to what the cause of this stubbornness is?
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Let me ask you another question, if you are willing to actually understand rather then bring negativity through your view of some one else\'s personal belief, did or have you ever considered what conviction means? why don\'t you give some examples for when you said, \"You will find that those with the strongest faith are also very stubborn people when it comes to their values, habits, methods etc.\" (Again, an inclusive statement.) Maybe, if you ever thought of this, that a person is not really a person of \"faith\" but they use faith to help them in their life, yet they, in the end, hurt people who are of religious persuasion and give them a bad name.[/quote:d3a7a4336c]
I'm not arguing that people don\'t have conviction or that they have come to conclusions about God and what not. All I am simply pointing out is that those with the stronger faith are naturally the more stubborn people. I suggest you observe the Christians you know, see what they are like outside of their faith and I believe you'll find the most faithful ones are usually the most stubborn when it comes to anything, not just their Christian beliefs. Take a look!
Now you also bring up another way of looking at faith. And I\'ve talked about this in another thread too. I see Faith in two different ways.
1) Faith as a noun. eg. Joe Blogs has a strong faith. In other words he holds strong principle and convictions. He stands firm on the lord. (Or he is very stubborn, ie he won\'t budge from his beliefs no matter what anybody tells him. (a lot like church leaders))
2) Faith as a verb. eg Joe Blogs believed with all his heart he would be healed.
Number 2 is not an example of stubbornness. I believe this is the sort of faith you are talking about when you say people use faith. Faith as a tool rather than faith as a stance. Does that make sense?
However I\'m talking about number 1. An example of that may be \"I have faith that the bible is telling the truth when it says...\" This is where stubborness can and normally will come in. \"I won\'t budge from that belief, because the Holy Spirit has guided me to this belief\".
I do believe that some are stubborn, yet others are not, just as I said before. I also know Christians who are yet search out for truth. The fact of the matter is that more often then not those who sit under a teacher, pastor, whatever, begin to think like that person. That is because they take in that person every day or once a week, I am not talking about just religion here but anything, and they read magazines, books by people who think like them to prove their point, etc. I recently finished a book about an important Christian doctrine. The writer, an influential Christian teacher in this doctrine, tried to make it sound convincing, and almost did, yet he left begging questions to answer. My father read the book and by me pointing out certain things, he never really thought about. I can also go to a bible study group and do the same thing and ask them to think about what they are taught. But will they? Who knows. Because that is what they are normally taught, to believe whatever is given them as truth, as fact. This is derived from a culture that runs off of feeding people whatever the feeder thinks the people want or need.