Someone remember the Parable of the Wedding Feast? It is in Matthew 22:1 - 14.? I just recently read it again. I never understood why on earth the person that did not wear a wedding gown got cast out of the wedding feast. I did not understand how God could be so cruel. Last time I read it dawned on me. This is how a lot of our churches are today (they don't have a wedding gown). Unfortunately, the ratio from the ones who wear wedding clothes to the one that don't wear wedding clothes, has dramatically changed into the opposite direction in our churches. I read somewhere that "God did not keep His promise to a church" What was the promise? And - How do you know He did not keep it? What makes you so sure that maybe the people in the church did not keep their promise to God? We cannot look in people's heart! Only God can.
Go ahead: read Matthew 22:1 - 14! I give you a hint, it has nothing to do with clothes!! <grin>
I read a couple of links here in the forum that were placed by onceconvinced, and actually read some other stories about people drifting away from Christ.
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There was something that stuck out to me. How everyone was so involved and busy in the church activities. I read about one lady who was such a people pleaser that I got the distinct impression that she suppressed her own growth and childhood experiences. We do this a lot. However, by doing this, we put ourselves in chains, instead of letting go of the chains through Christ, we chain ourselves with guilt, pastor pleasing, parents pleasing, self pleasing, perfectionism, etc. The Bible teaches that we should primarily go out and spread the Gospel in our family, in our neighborhoods, in our state, in the world. We must understand - again - again: that Christianity teaches ( the bible teaches) that we CANNOT work or busy ourselves into heaven. If we are willing, we are saved (Born Again) BY GRACE and BY GRACE ALONE ! Ephes. 2:8.
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Being a Christian has absolutely NOTHING to do as to where we came from or what we have done !!! But God looks at the heart. The Bible teaches that the thief who was crucified next to Jesus was going to paradise that same day. He had no time to play "miss/mister goody toe shoes."

-- Again, we are NOT a Christian because our parents were Christians. We are not Christians because we have been in church all our lives. We are not a Christian because we have been very active in church.. We are NOT going to heaven because we are going to church!
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The bible teaches we go to heaven because we recognize Jesus Christ who He really is, and, therefore, recognize our sins and repent! We are broken before God's Son who died for us and took our sins on Him!! This is where most stumble (the brokenness) because this means we must lay down our pride before The Cross, Jesus Christ. The Holy Spirit enables us to do
for God what we could not do otherwise. God hates pride! (Read 1 John 2:16, and Proverbs 8:13: The fear of the Lord is to hate evil, pride and arrogance and the evil way, and the perverted mouth I hate.)
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It is NOT about churches, preachers, popes, nor us. It is about God The Father, The Son, The Holy Spirit - all in ONE.... The I AM, the Creator ..... as a Born Again Christian, anyway.
Well, this is really all I have on this one. Folks (for the Christians), don't drift!! Stay on the path, read the bible, pray, persevere to the end. God will come through, maybe not at a time when 'we' think He ought to, but He will come through for His people. remember He is God, He does not think and reason the way we do - His thoughts are higher than ours - Remember: HE has got the BIG PICTURE !!