Peds nurse wrote:
Good afternoon Mr. OC!! It is your lucky night. (that sounds bad, huh?) I have time to address one post before I lay my head to sleep, and I chose to answer yours. (You can thank me later).
I shall thank you now!
Peds nurse wrote:
If God was a man, he probably wouldn't miss a couple thousand women. God however, is not a man...He is a God.
And as such would not miss anyone. He is a god after all. He would not have to deal with such frail human emotions. He is the almighty God! A perfect being. Thus he would never have to experience any painful feelings of loss.
Peds nurse wrote:
OC, I wonder, what do you think God is Jealous of?
I don't believe a god would be jealous. It's a human frailty, not something that an all powerful and perfect being would have to deal with. If he is a god of love then he can't be a god of jealousy. However if he himself claims to be a jealous God, then there's something extremely contradictory about the whole thing. But I have come to expect that from the bible.
Jealousy is full of negative connotations and I don't believe you can try to twist the world to mean something positive. You would just use different words completely. eg "I am a God who will never let anyone take you from me!" or "I love you so much I will fight for you!"
Definitely not "I am a jealous God punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me"
Peds nurse wrote:
Do you think he just adds us to his harem, trying to get his quota of people up? HE LOVES US. It says in the Bible, that he knew us in our mother's womb. From the very start, we are precious to him.
And just like a mother, once that child grows, moves on and no longer needs to be mothered, you would let that child go with your blessings. You would say something like "You are an adult now and you can do whatever you want. You don't need me, but hey that doesn't mean I'm not here for you. I will always be your mother and I will always care about you. Come and see me whenever you need me. Come and see me even if you don't need me. You will always be welcome".
You would not turn to your child and say "What? You're disowning me? How dare you? I must always be your one and only! You must never abandon me! Because you are forsaking me, I disown you! I am going to make you suffer and I'm going to make your children suffer and their children suffer and THEIR children suffer..."
No you wouldn't because that would show real irrational jealousy and wrath. Not something a loving mother would do.
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He is not willing to share us with other images of Gods.
OC wrote:Really, it makes no sense that a perfect being would ever have such petty human emotions such as jealousy. I mean what does it really matter to this god if a few of us worship other gods? Is it really so wounding to his ego?
It is because He knows what is best for us. Would you want your children to go up to other adults and ask them questions concerning how to live, what college to go to, if they should get married, ect..? Parents are invested in their children's lives.
OC wrote:I am human, so therefore I will have petty human insecurities. I will have petty feelings such as jealousy, envy, greed etc. A god should not have the issues because he is a whole and perfect spiritual being. He should never feel threatened by anything, let alone other humans
He doesn't feel threatened, my sweet friend.
He clearly does otherwise he wouldn't have made the commandment "Thou shalt have no other gods but me".
Peds nurse wrote:
He isn't running for some God election, and needs our votes. He wants to interact in our lives. He wants His Spirit to dwell with in us. He wants to be our God, and we be His people.
Therefore he would not need to be jealous. He would accept it if we were to say "I don't believe in you" or "I think another god would be better for me".
If this god is as loving and as caring as you claim, he would say "Ok, that's fine, it's your decision. If you want to worship some other god go right ahead, I won't be happy, but it's your decision".
But instead God is going to have our descendants punished to the 3rd and 4th generation. And ultimately we'll be cast into Hell.
There's nothing loving about any of that. This is really hardcore angry and wrathful jealousy we're talking about. Completely irrational for a so-called loving god who only wants the best for us.
Peds nurse wrote:
I am not talking about them seeking another adult for questions. I am talking about seeking another adult for what you long to give them. You have your child's best interest at heart, because you are invested in their lives, and have been since the beginning.
It may be painful for you, but you let go. You allow them to follow their own path. After all, that's what we do with our kids don't we? We don't try to keep them under our thumb for all their lives. We let them go.
Why can't God just do the same? Why does he have to get so jealous and wrathful about it?
Peds nurse wrote:
I can relate to that. If a parent is stable, loving, kind..ect, with NO other parenting issues, the parent indeed would be jealous of the child asking someone else for what they are capable of giving.
But once they reach a certain age, the parent just has to let go and they have to shelve their jealousy. Those that don't, end up causing all sorts of problems for their children. Domineering parents who won't let their children go are not a good thing. The same would apply to a domineering god who won't let his worshipers go.
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OC wrote:Let's face it, jealousy is about ego. It's about "oooh don't you dare share your love with any one else". I just don't see why a god who is so all together and all powerful would ever be upset about someone sharing their love with others. It really does make him seem very human and very vunerable.
So, if your girlfriend cheats on you, it's about your ego? The love that she has for you is special (or I would hope). Do you want her to love people in the exact way she loves you? We must hold sacred, what should be sacred.
OC wrote:We are talking about whether jealousy is a good attribute for a GOD. Not for a human.
You have just used humans to make your point. Look at your first question. God's love is sacred.
Actually that post you just quoted I was talking about God. I've underlined it.
I believe it was you that first came up with the idea of the bride and how we are like God's brides. That is why I tried to bring up the whole thing of a million brides.
It's quite acceptable for humans with their frailties and human nature to be jealous. It's quite another thing for a perfect being. A perfect being should never be able to suffer any feelings of loss otherwise they would not be whole and complete. A god must surely by whole and complete? Without any needs whatsoever.
Peds nurse wrote: For some reason, I think that you are saying, that because has billions of followers, what's a couple million who don't follow? If that is what you think, than your perspective on God is way different than mine. God holds each of us dear. None are alike, and he knows us all by name. He is God, able to be, know, and has known, everyone who was ever born. He loves us all as his children, yet there are those who choose not to go to him. If we think for a moment that he says, "Oh well, you win some, you lose some," then we are not talking about the same God.
I guess not. You are talking about a god who gets all jealous and wrathful if he loses a soul. I would see god as someone a lot more together who is in control of his emotions. A being who would be willing to let go of his loved ones. Not clasps hold of them jealously, unwilling to let them go. This God you are talking about does not seem to be a very healthy individual. He seems rather obsessive and selfish.
God has a heart?
Even if he did... if this heart can be broken, then God is very frail, much like humans. I don't believe a god would be that frail and weak. I guess that is another difference between the god I envisage and the one you envisage. Your god has human frailties and can't handle anyone abandoning him. My god would be willing to accept the situation and let the loved one move on. He would remain strong and not crumble. After all he is a true god.
Peds nurse wrote:
just as it did when Lazarus died. Jesus wept.
Jesus was in a human body. So he had the same human frailties. However in Heaven there will be no more tears. There is a new body. Jesus will be in that new body and there will be no more tears. Thus Jesus would not be suffering at all if you decided to abandon him. In fact I would think that Jesus would accept the situation and move on. At least I hope he would. I hope he wouldn't get all stroppy about it. Especially being the son of God!
Peds nurse wrote:
This is why there is great rejoicing in Heaven when one repents, and turns to God. His child, that was lost, came home.
Just like a parent. If their child leaves and says "I know longer need you". And the child returns the parent would rejoice. However if that child didn't return the parent would probably move on. One thing they wouldn't be doing was holding a grudge and preparing to punish all his offspring if he doesn't return.
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He created us, and wants to have a faithful relationship with him, so that he can shower his love upon us, and direct us in the way we should go.
OC wrote:But why would this god who is so all together, complete and perfect ever be concerned with this sort of thing?
This is because He loves us with an everlasting love, it is a love that we cannot even grasp. If we, who are only human, can love and want someone to be faithful to us based on that love, think of God..with even more love...
OC wrote:And even more partners. Millions and millions of partners. Why would he be jealous if one of them goes looking elsewhere? It makes no sense. It can only bother him if he has ego issues. If he has insecurities.
We as humans have insecurities. A god shouldn't.
No, it isn't about HIS security, it is about ours.
You are talking about a different type of security. I'm talking about insecurities. A completely different thing.
I'm sorry, but if God grieves, or is jealous, or angry, or wrathful... if he can't handle losing you, then those are HIS insecurities. Not ours.
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OC wrote:He doesn't need our faith or our love. He has plenty of other wives he can share is love with. Why get all wrathful and angry about those who don't?
I have plenty of children, why would I get upset if only one of them rejected me as a parent? It matters because he doesn't want anyone to perish. It matters because he sent his son to the cross for all. It matters because he wishes to be separated from no one.
OC wrote:You are a human, not a god. I would expect you to be upset. But God, he is a completely and perfect being without insecurities and without needs.
At some point your child will grow up and leave the nest. You will no longer be in that same parental role you once were. Are you going to be angry and upset about that? Or are you going to be an adult and move on and accept that you are no longer needed in that capacity? That you no longer have any more control over what they do?
He doesn't need us...He wants us.
That's why I said that a god would never be needy. However the god you are describing appears to be very needy. He is unable to let go.
You don't always get what you want. Most of us can handle not getting what we want. God on the other hand seems to get all wrathful if he doesn't get what he wants. He says "Oh I'm going to punish your descendants for this!"
But this is more about what the human wants. If we don't feel we need this god, then we should be able to move on. There should be no need for God to get all uppity about it. Just as we as a parent shouldn't get all uppity because our child wants to leave the nest.
Peds nurse wrote:
Do you know how beautiful that is? I get chills when I think that the God of the universe wants me. He desires my presence.
I used to see it as beautiful until I took off the rose-colored Christian glasses. That's when I began to see just how ugly it all was. He doesn't just desire your presence Peds. He DEMANDS it. And if he doesn't get it, then you are going to suffer his wrath. He's going to punish your children and your children's children and right down to the 3rd and 4th generation!! Is that in any way beautiful?
Peds nurse wrote:
I cut you short, so if there is something you wanted addressed, but I failed to do it, let me know...pretty please

I know your time is short and don't have time to respond to everything (I should be employing the same rule). I figure you would have address the things you felt most strongly about and the ones you felt you were able to debate.