tam wrote:Please note that neither of those quotes support a requirement of making ... a private declaration of dedication.
Obviously if one is giving one's life to Jehovah it is fitting to let Jehovah
know about it. What kind of dedication would involve not letting anyone including the one one is dedicated to, know? Even non-witnesses who "give their lives to Jesus" tell him (Jesus) about it. A dedication involves at least two parties, the person making a vow and the person or thing to which that vow is made. Dedicating ones life to JEHOVAH is a personal matter and is made in private prayer to Him alone but if a person does love Jehovah they confess that love to Him.
If dedication is private why do Jehovah's Witnesses make public statements about it?
While the dedication is private, Christians are not ashamed of it, nor if asked will they deny or try and hide it (see Mat 10:33). Christians see no reason not to admit what they have done if they are asked; the Christian elders, biblically charged to oversee (survey and safeguard) the congregation, see it fitting to ask.
Further their dedication is an integral part of BAPTISM which
is a public declaration of one's new positions vis-a-vis Jehovah [/i] To illustate: A man and a woman, after having gotten to know each other and having fallen in love, decide to "make it official". Their committment was made initially to each other in private, but wanting to be publically recognized as having made that committement, knowing that this will impact on their future public lives in the community, they officially record that dedication with a public ceremony. We call those marriages.
In a similar way, even in ancient Israel, vows were publically officiated at the temple and Jesus not only himself was publcally baptised but instructed his disciples to do the same (see Mat 28:20). As Peter implied, baptism would only be a bath if it were not in symbol of ones dedication, so in the light of the above, Jehovah's Witnesses see nothing unfitting or scripturally inappropriate to ask for a pubic affirmation that baptism candidates have followed the scriptural steps that logically lead to their publicizing their decision.