East of Eden wrote:cnorman18 wrote:
But your version of "common sense" holds that homosexuality is, in itself, wrong, perverted and evil, does it not? That conviction can come only from religion.
Prove that. You don't have to be a genius to note gays can't procreate, and that in gay males it is a deadly lifestyle.
There are those phony reasons again. Lots of people can't procreate, and you aren't at all interested in banning marriage for the infertile or those over 50; and it isn't homosexuality that constitutes a "deadly lifestyle," but promiscuity. That's a much bigger problem among heterosexuals, from their sheer numbers alone. Since monogamous homosexual couples, of which there are many, lead a lifestyle no "deadlier" than monogamous heterosexual couples, legalizing gay marriage would logically make promiscuity LESS common among gays, not more so.
The only thing fake and phony is your comprehension. I said before gays can't procreate and even if they adopt, the kids are shortchanged being without both a mother and father.
Then logically you should want to prohibit single parenthood, and children living with one parent and a same-sex sibling of that parent, and children being raised by single grandparents, and so on. The fact that your objection doesn't apply to those groups proves that your objection is actually to homosexuality, not to other-than-conventional parenthood. If the same-sex couple isn't gay, or if the single parent isn't gay, it's not a problem, or at least not a problem serious enough to ban marriage for those people. QED.
One more time: who, other than fundamentalists, wants to keep gay marriage illegal?
Where is your data that 52% of CA voters are Christian fundamentalists? That is idiotic on the face of it. If it were true you should be able to add up fundalmentalist church membership rolls in the neighborhood of 20,000,000 people.
Have you added up the church membership rolls in California?
Are all fundamentalists affiliated with a church organization?
Is it possible that some members of non-fundamentalist churches, like the Methodists and the Episcopalians (don't forget that a large proportion of Episcopalians are leaving their church over that very issue), might be fundamentalists on homosexuality?
You have failed so far, in spite of your repeated false claims, to provide a single reason to oppose gay marriage that (1) honestly applies to both gays and straights equally, and (2) is not based on the idea that homosexuality is a sin. Until you can give a reason that is both, it remains clear that the only significant opposition to gay marriage is based on religion.
The majority of Californians are professed Christians. Those who voted for Prop 8 are fundamentalists on the subject of homosexuality. Opposition to gay marriage comes from no other motivation, in the end.
A cultural Christian does not = Fundamentalist.
Doesn't a "cultural Christian's" opposition to gay marriage come from his religious beliefs? I'll grant you that attributing opposition to gay marriage to "fundamentalists" only was inaccurate, if I ever in fact said that; but opposition to gay marriage IS 99+%
relgious.
Who are all professing Christians. If not, please post the evidence.
Nice try. You asked originally for non-Christian organizations, now you assume the individuals to be Christians. It's like trying to hit a moving target.
Nice try, yourself. You claimed that these were examples of non-religious opposition to gay marriage. They aren't.
Asian group rallies for traditional marriage
"Saying most Asians don't support same-sex marriage, the Asian Heritage Coalition held a rally for Proposition 8 in downtown San Diego Sunday morning.
About 120 people gathered to hear speeches from religious leaders, including Catholic Bishop Salvatore Cordileone of San Diego, in front of the County Administration Center overlooking San Diego Bay.
So what?
So you claimed that these were examples of non-religious opposition to gay marriage. They aren't.
There were liberal Christians opposing Prop. 8 because of their religious convictions.
And that is their right, just as it is the right of fundamentalists to oppose it.
You're not getting this; Prop 8 isn't wrong because fundamentalists support it;
it's wrong because it's unjust and contrary to American law.
You keep dodging the question of whether that is bad too. You've got a double standard going, you haven't once objected to liberal Christians trying to pass gay marriage because of their Christian beliefs.
And you KEEP ON trying to misrepresent what I'm saying; at this point, I would have to say that that is
dishonest. I've never said that Christian involvement in public policy is bad, no matter how many times you try to put those words in my mouth.
See? You can't mount an actual argument; all you can do is argue against strawmen and keep presenting the same well-refuted arguments about procreation and disease and so on. We've been over all this more than once already, and you keep pretending we haven't.
And once again you deliberately misrepresent what I have explicitly said.
Curb the rhetoric. We may misunderstand what the other says, drop the 'deliberate'.
If you'll stop trying to misrepresent my arguments after I've carefully corrected you multiple times, I'll stop saying "deliberate." Like I said; I've made myself too clear here for you to have misunderstood me.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with Christians, fundamentalist Christians, or anyone else opposing gay marriage and working to ban it for whatever reasons they like, including reasons based on religion. Okay?
What I keep trying to tell you is that imposing a religious doctrine on all Americans is unconstitutional, and any law that enshrines the idea that homosexuality is in any way "bad," "evil," or otherwise subject to special sanctions under the law is absolutely a
religious doctrine. NONE of the "nonreligious" reasons you keep giving as if they were new are to be applied to non-gay people, and that absolutely proves that they are rationalizations of sanctions against
being a homosexual, and not being unable to have children or having to raise a child without an opposite-sex mate.
No one has ever said that faith-based groups don't or shouldn't have a say in public policy. What I, and others, HAVE said, is that public policy may not be directly dictated by any religious group or set of groups under the American legal system; no purely religious doctrine may be enforced by the civil or criminal law if it violates the Constitution.
The opposition to gay marriage isn't 'purely' religious.
So you keep saying, but you've yet to give a single example of a reason to ban gay marriage that you'll apply equally to straights, or any reason that is NOT based on the idea that it's a sin to be a homosexual.
In other words, yes, it is purely religious, as in 99+%. You have yet to show that it's not.
The fact that Christians may not dictate public policy based on their religious beliefs does not constitute bias or unfairness toward Christians. Muslims may not impose their doctrines on all Americans either, and I doubt very much that you think that unfair.
I couldn't care less what motivates Muslims or anyone else when they vote.
Are you DELIBERATELY missing the point?
We're not talking about motivations. We're talking about what can become law.
You apparently think it's unfair that Christian doctrines can't be forced on all Americans under our legal system; but I don't think you're regard it as unfair that Muslims can't force THEIR beliefs on all Americans, either.
Okay, now pretend you didn't understand THAT.
As you say, and as I have agreed, people may vote for whatever they like for whatever reasons they like. No one has ever said otherwise. But if there are no nonreligious reasons for a law, the law is not Constitutional and therefore invalid, even if 100% of the people vote for it.
And there are non-religious reasons to support Prop. 8.
Again: So you say. What are they? You haven't given one yet
that you'll apply to straights as well, which means your "reasons" aren't about what you pretend they are, but about
being gay.
I don't think I've ever repeated myself this many times on this many topics in any debate ever, without those repetitions even being acknowledged, as opposed to ignored, misrepresented, or otherwise dodged.
You keep pretending I'm trying to muzzle Christians and stifle their freedom of speech. That is an implicit lie. I'm trying to say that freedom of speech on the part of Christians doesn't mean that that speech has to be obeyed by everyone else.
There are Christians on both sides of this issue.
?
That's a
non sequitur if there ever was one.
What on Earth does that have to do what what I just said?
Do you also reject the involvement of the Christian left who support gay marriage?
Repeating a misstatement of fact doesn't make it true; and an objection based on an argument I haven't made (and that you know I haven't made) is meaningless.
Why can't you actually respond to my arguments instead of misrepresenting them and arguing against strawmen?
Why can't you quit dodging and answer my question?
Because it's a question based on a lie. I never said that involvement of fundamentalists in the political process was wrong in the first place, so the question contains an implicit falsehood.
Okay? Now when did you stop beating YOUR wife?
All opposition to gay marriage is based on the idea that homosexuality is bad, objectionable, and/or perverted. That idea comes from nowhere but religion.
One more time (and I point out that your failure to answer this is very, VERY suggestive): Can you cite any opposition to gay marriage at all, from any source, that ISN'T based on the idea that being gay is "bad"? Sorry, but assuming that that idea is self-evidently true doesn't count.
I've heard of gays who do not support gay marriage, but instead support civil unions.
References? The reasoning behind this? Quotes? Sources?
Anything?
Further: So what? Throughout this debate we've been talking about
significant reasons to oppose gay marriage. The number of GAYS who oppose gay marriage is about as significant as the number of blacks in the Ku Klux Klan.
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I think we're about done here. If you misrepresent my position again, it will be clearly established that you are doing so deliberately, and I will not bother to respond. If you try to post the same specious "nonreligious reasons" to oppose gay marriage which you will not apply equally to straight people, I will not bother to respond to those either. Endlessly repeating a phony argument doesn't make it real.
Being gay is no more "bad" than being tall or left-handed. Any law which discriminates against people for
being gay, as every single one of your phony "non-religious reasons" inarguably does (since they aren't applied to straights), is discriminatory and unjust on its face, regardless of religious concerns. The fact that discrimination against gays is based on religious dogma and nothing else merely puts a name to the reason it's unconstitutional.
Yet one more time: Do you have an argument against gay marriage that doesn't begin with the premise that being gay is "bad," which is a sectarian religious doctrine?