Miles wrote:
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Assuming one is a normal, well adjusted adult what's wrong with being or feeling sexy?
Either in
.........................Behavior......................... or
.................................. Dress?
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(And don't say that a normal, well adjusted adult would never want to be or feel sexy)
"Sexy" as you put it is a wrong word. Girls are beautiful. For us, followers of Christ, modesty is a virtue.
Is being beautiful something to be ashamed of? No.
Is being beautiful something to show to all? No.
A married couple both explore the fruits of God's gift and it is for them two only. A couple should not want third person to participate. Pornography is a great evil, you know.
So your wife, should not seek other men to admire her looks and you should not seek other girls to admire your looks. Wouldn't you feel jelous if she did that to you? It would upset me, had my wife do that. We would have to talk.
Would my wife appreciate me flirting with other girls, when I'm married to her? I hope not.
So keep in mind (or research): modesty, virtue, the Sacrament of Marriage or Holy Martimony.
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