Tuddrussell wrote:"Now" is what is happening at this point in time, and it is not fixed. Now is like a bobber in a pool of constantly rising fluid.
Now is always changing, it is in a perpetual state of flux, Now will not be now in the future, and it was not now in the past.
Change is occurring all the time, unless time stops.
Everything ceases to be at some point, therefore by your definition nothing exists, hence my calling it exclusive: It has a set of rules based on exclusion.
I can think of nothing that doesn't change in some for, nor can I think of anything that can survive the end of the universe, unless you count things that exist in other universe, which you don't because it has no evidence.
I honestly never cared about evidence, neither did my parents, or my teachers, or the principal, or the juvie judge that always put me in a cell over the weekend because I had chronic gastro-intestinal problems. I hate that guy, glad I don't have to see him again.
Evidence never helped me out with any of my problems, evidence is nowhere near as important in a trial as well rehearsed story, or a faked smile.
Fourteen men get abused every second, and there are plenty of scientific studies that prove that female-on-male violence is a common occurence... and yet there is virtually no funding going towards educating police officers, judges, attorneys, or children about it, even it is just the opposite for violence against women.
Evidence is just one way of validating something, it is a good way, I am not denying that, but it does have it's limitations, and drawbacks.
The point I am trying to make is that I respect evidence, it's just not the be all, end all way of convincing me of something, and it has never really worked for me in the past.
I missed a lot of school, mostly because it was an hour long drive to get to school, and I had tummy troubles... well that, and I never really get along with people my age, and school sucked...
I learned how to add, subtract, multiply, and divide the first time they showed me how to do it, and then they made me do it again, and again, and again, and again... until I just refused to do it any longer, but did the teachers put me in a higher math class?
No, they just put me in detention, and then later special ed.
Though my terrible handwriting probably added fuel to the "He failed math class, so he must have a learning disability!" fire.
Evidence has never done a single thing for me, but belief sure has!
I was once a nihilistic, and depressed atheist with nothing to look forward to but a miserable life, and then dieing, rotting, and ceasing to exist... but eventually belief shown into my life in the form of a wolf that came to me in a dream, he showed me how I could live my life with love in my heart, and fire in my soul.
Other animals have come to me in other dreams, and gave me profound pearls of wisdom, but that wolf never came back.
I owe everything to that wolf, I firmly believe that he saved my life, as I was in a very dark place at the time.
That might have something to do with why I have such a broad view of reality, because those dreams to me are as, real, and profound as anything else in my life.
Thank you for sharing your story. I understand your frustration with the real bias that is men face when they are the victims of domestic violence - it was a favourite drum that i beat, onine and off, during the late 1990's.
You sound like a young man with a lot of natural intelligence - but are lacking in formal education. While I realise your experience in formal education was not a happy one, it remains a crucial element, I believe, to determining the nature of being.
A rehearsed story or a sweet smile might manipulate - but it is living a lie.
You said at the top..
."Now" is what is happening at this point in time, and it is not fixed. Now is like a bobber in a pool of constantly rising fluid.
Now is always changing, it is in a perpetual state of flux, Now will not be now in the future, and it was not now in the past.
I do not agree. What you are calling 'now' is what you are observing, what you ar relating to. In his book
Seeing Red Nicholas Humphrey wrote that in order to have a sense of self, we travel through experience in sort of a 'time boat'. We attch a little bit of the past and a little bit of the anticipated future to the immediate present - he calls it a 'thick moment of time'.
The immediate present, 'now' can only be experienced under very specific circumstances. The 'now' you see as changing is the moment gone by. It is 'old'.
Try to look at 'now' as that emergent instant - the border between past and present -it is not experienced but it can be lived.
Now can never end, nor can it change. What you perceive as changing, what you call 'now' is in fact not 'now' but the 'thick moment of time' made up as I noted above.
By my definition existence is only truly experienced in the 'now'. It is both 'nothing' and everything - as my signature suggests.
may you be happy, kind, loving and peaceful