Is Kinky Sex Wrong?

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Is Kinky Sex Wrong?

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I've heard people say that kinky sex is a perversion of God's design for sex. But then again, I've also heard a few people say that anything can go in the bedroom so long as it's still between the married man and the woman.

I don't think the Bible ever stated that kinky sex between married people is bad. Does the Bible even state that general lust between married people is bad for that matter?

So where's the real truth of that? Is kinky sex wrong?

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Merv wrote:I've heard people say that kinky sex is a perversion of God's design for sex. But then again, I've also heard a few people say that anything can go in the bedroom so long as it's still between the married man and the woman.

I don't think the Bible ever stated that kinky sex between married people is bad. Does the Bible even state that general lust between married people is bad for that matter?

So where's the real truth of that? Is kinky sex wrong?
Some Christians claim that sex is only for procreation. Leviticus seems to back up that claim by banning sex during and for a period of time after menstruation.
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Thanks for the input, but unfortunetly that does't answer my question.

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Thanks for the input, but unfortunetly that does't answer my question.

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Simple answer is: No!

Paul says that the Marriage bed is undefiled which pretty much means anything goes as long as it is consensual.

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Simple answer is: No!

Paul says that the Marriage bed is undefiled which pretty much means anything goes as long as it is consensual.

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:lol: :D

*happy dance*

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McCulloch wrote:Some Christians claim that sex is only for procreation. Leviticus seems to back up that claim by banning sex during and for a period of time after menstruation.
If that was the case, why did god make it so enjoyable? Why did he not give us tubes that we attach and DNA is exchanged that way, and then the two people separate, and split themselves up? He would have made us like bacteria wouldn't he?
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McCulloch wrote:Some Christians claim that sex is only for procreation. Leviticus seems to back up that claim by banning sex during and for a period of time after menstruation.
methylatedghosts wrote:If that was the case, why did god make it so enjoyable? Why did he not give us tubes that we attach and DNA is exchanged that way, and then the two people separate, and split themselves up? He would have made us like bacteria wouldn't he?
Perhaps you should ask this of a theist. Maybe if it were not fun, we would not be tempted to sin, and if we were not tempted to sin, he couldn't make such a big deal out of redeeming us.
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McCulloch wrote: Perhaps you should ask this of a theist. Maybe if it were not fun, we would not be tempted to sin, and if we were not tempted to sin, he couldn't make such a big deal out of redeeming us.
Hmmm, never looked at it that way. And makes logical sense, from a theist point of view. However, I don't think there is sin anyway....
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