Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity? If not, why do Christians hate gay people so much? If the two are equally bad, why do so many Christians who would never be gay cheat on their wife?The morning after Chick-fil-A day
AUGUST 2, 2012 BY MIKE PATZ 1 COMMENT
Its the morning after the Chick-fil-A drama and Im still chewing.
I remember the day I was sitting next to an incredibly nice gay guy, enjoying a really good conversation when he dropped the ultimate conversation-killer.
What do you do for a living?
I hate that question. I hate that question because people cant help but size you up when they hear the answer. I hate that question because were already prone to think of ourselves as human doings instead of human beings. I hate that question because of what it does to people when they find out what I do.
Ive often tried to find ways around the question. Ive told people I work with non-profit organizations (this is true). Ive told people that I write (this is true). Ive even told people that I am a spiritual guru that assists people in opening their third eye (I really like this one). For whatever reason, on that day, I just cut to the chase. I work as a pastor of a church.
Everything changed. His next words went something like this:
Listen, Im gay and Im content with who I am. Im sure you are going to say that I was not born this way, and I wont argue the point. For a significant part of my childhood I was violated by a neighbor and then an uncle. Did that play a role in my sexual orientation? Possibly. I also know many people that had a trouble-free childhood and they turned out very happily gay. Regardless of how it occurred, this is who I am now and I make no apologies for the man I have become. If God has a problem with a man who tries to be true to himself, then I have a problem with a God that allows these kinds of things to happen to kids like me in the first place.
I kept thinking how much easier it would have been if I said I was a writer.
Fortunately, Jesus has a way of showing up in the middle of conversations just like these, and on that day He did not disappoint. My friend shared his heart, and I shared mine. Ive never seen people change via argument, which is why I prefer to help people taste and see that the Lord is good.
This is where Christians tend to blow it.
They taste really bad. They serve up some really Biblical truth in some really nauseating ways. They major on minors and minor on majors. They tend to be extremely unaware of their pride, and pride is like bad breath " everybody knows you have it, except for you. Its always easy to scream the loudest about sins you do not personally struggle with.
So why are we yelling?
Im still not sure why Christians are so militant in their opposition of homosexual immorality while they seem to go so mild with their opposition of heterosexual immorality. I hear the concern about homosexuality and the catch phrase is often family values: Imagine how much it will mess up a child who is being raised by two women, the reasoning goes. A kid needs both a father and a mother, we say. Yet the gays I speak with often wonder how the church can talk about family values when 50-60% of Christian couples divorce. Talk about family values. So a community of people that do not stay married is trying to talk to us about marital morality. How ironic.
In light of the fact that Christians have just as much pre-marital sex and watch just as much porn and divorce just as frequently why arent we more embarrassed to speak out on the issue of homosexual sin? Good question.
One guy said, Its funny how you can claim the grace of God to cover heterosexual sin while saying that homosexual sin is beyond the reach of Gods grace.
That brings me to all the Chick"fil-A drama.
I get why Chick-fil-A day looked so annoying to so many people yesterday. I understand why people have planned a kiss-in this Friday. And I can see why people shake their heads when they read yet another homophobic Facebook post.
Church people ask, why wont our culture repent? My answer: because repentance is a learned behavior. Someone has to model it. I tell parents that its silly to expect a child to repent when they have never seen a parent repent. And its futile to wait for a culture to repent when a culture has never seen the Church repent.
Is the real problem with our culture the unrepentant gay community? No. Its an unrepentant Church.
I am so sorry today for all the hatred that Christians have dished out toward gays. I am so sorry for all of the homophobic sarcasm that has come from the pulpits of Christian ministers. I am so sorry for the way we pick and choose which sins to condemn. I am so sorry that we have claimed to follow Jesus while we neglected widows and orphans, and then engaged in gossip and gluttony. I am so sorry that we have provided such a bad example for the rest of society to follow. Im embarrassed, Im ashamed, and I repent. Im serious. I repent.
Yet Im also concerned that when our culture most needs to hear truth, Christians dont know how to tell it.
Weve come to a dangerous moment in culture, and Christians are ill-equipped to handle it. We have reached the point where disagreement is now seen as hatred. I read an article today where a woman was appealing to Christians to recognize their hateful crimes against the homosexual community. I nodded in agreement, but decided to keep reading to see how she itemized these crimes. Paragraph after paragraph described the hurt and rejection resulting from these offenses, but it took a while to get to the actual crime: Christians claim that homosexuality is a sin. I was stunned. Disagreement was equated with hate.
Christians have a substantial challenge on their hands because every generation and every culture is going to disagree with Gods truth at some point. How interesting that our USAmerican culture considers Christianity to be closed-minded on the issue of sexual morality, while the majority of world religions are in agreement in opposition to the USA position on sexuality. Is USA culture not closed-minded for claiming that all these other religions are wrong? Is it not hypocrisy to say that we will be tolerant with everybody " except the people we consider intolerant. Closed-mindedness is not just a religious thing, its a human thing.
If ever Christians needed some good breath, it is now.
Because we have to kiss this world with the truth of God.
The problem is, no matter how good your kiss, your breath can ruin the whole experience. And no matter how much truth we bring, if it does not drip with grace and humility, it always falls flat.
Im not asking Christians to stop telling the truth, Im asking them to brush their teeth.
What does that look like? The apostle Paul said to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy towards all people. (Titus 3:2)
Can you imagine what would happen if an entire chunk of Christians decided to embrace the Titus 3:2 approach? Will people be staging protests and kiss-ins to protest Chick-fil-A? Maybe. But the way of Jesus is to speak evil of no one. Has Chick-fil-A been bullied? Yes. But the kingdom of Jesus response is to avoid quarreling. Is there more drama to come as our culture becomes increasingly polarized? Of course. But if God is our Father, then we have to start showing the family resemblance, being gentle and showing perfect courtesy. This should have an effect on the way we post our thoughts on Facebook. Or talk to angry people at work. Or wait in line at Chick-fil-A.
You see, we cant shrink back on truth-telling or we dishonor the very Gospel. But when we bring the truth of Jesus we have to do it in the Spirit of Jesus.
Or stop being surprised when our culture doesnt want a kiss.
Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
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Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #1I don't normally copy and paste an article but this is great stuff. At the end I have a question.
Matthew 16:26
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26 For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul?
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26 For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul?
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Post #2With respect to what?Moses Yoder wrote: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
As far as I can see there's nothing wrong with homosexuality at all if the people involved are consensual and not cheating on other people.
Infidelity is lying and deceit, and a breaking of vows. That's why they call it infidelity. If it were consensual and honest it would simply be an "open relationship".
Christians hate everybody in Jesus' name.Moses Yoder wrote: If not, why do Christians hate gay people so much?
Many (if not most) people who call themselves "Christians" don't really believe in the religion at all. They just like to use it to support their bigotries and hatred toward others in Jesus' name.Moses Yoder wrote: If the two are equally bad, why do so many Christians who would never be gay cheat on their wife?
Those are my guesses at your questions.
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Re: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #3I've raised this particular argument a number of times on this forum. The best that the anti-gays can come up with is a hurried and not too convincing "two wrongs don't make a right" after which they proceed to condemn gays. Even the Jesus text that they often quote concerning marriage being between a man and woman (Mark 10:2-12) they either miss or totally ignore the context of Jesus' remark (divorce) and instead deceivingly apply the text to homosexuaity. There is so much deception within Christianity that, these days, I'm rather reluctant to refer to myself as a Christian.Moses Yoder wrote: I don't normally copy and paste an article but this is great stuff. At the end I have a question.
Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity? If not, why do Christians hate gay people so much? If the two are equally bad, why do so many Christians who would never be gay cheat on their wife?The morning after Chick-fil-A day
AUGUST 2, 2012 BY MIKE PATZ 1 COMMENT
Its the morning after the Chick-fil-A drama and Im still chewing.
I remember the day I was sitting next to an incredibly nice gay guy, enjoying a really good conversation when he dropped the ultimate conversation-killer.
What do you do for a living?
I hate that question. I hate that question because people cant help but size you up when they hear the answer. I hate that question because were already prone to think of ourselves as human doings instead of human beings. I hate that question because of what it does to people when they find out what I do.
Ive often tried to find ways around the question. Ive told people I work with non-profit organizations (this is true). Ive told people that I write (this is true). Ive even told people that I am a spiritual guru that assists people in opening their third eye (I really like this one). For whatever reason, on that day, I just cut to the chase. I work as a pastor of a church.
Everything changed. His next words went something like this:
Listen, Im gay and Im content with who I am. Im sure you are going to say that I was not born this way, and I wont argue the point. For a significant part of my childhood I was violated by a neighbor and then an uncle. Did that play a role in my sexual orientation? Possibly. I also know many people that had a trouble-free childhood and they turned out very happily gay. Regardless of how it occurred, this is who I am now and I make no apologies for the man I have become. If God has a problem with a man who tries to be true to himself, then I have a problem with a God that allows these kinds of things to happen to kids like me in the first place.
I kept thinking how much easier it would have been if I said I was a writer.
Fortunately, Jesus has a way of showing up in the middle of conversations just like these, and on that day He did not disappoint. My friend shared his heart, and I shared mine. Ive never seen people change via argument, which is why I prefer to help people taste and see that the Lord is good.
This is where Christians tend to blow it.
They taste really bad. They serve up some really Biblical truth in some really nauseating ways. They major on minors and minor on majors. They tend to be extremely unaware of their pride, and pride is like bad breath " everybody knows you have it, except for you. Its always easy to scream the loudest about sins you do not personally struggle with.
So why are we yelling?
Im still not sure why Christians are so militant in their opposition of homosexual immorality while they seem to go so mild with their opposition of heterosexual immorality. I hear the concern about homosexuality and the catch phrase is often family values: Imagine how much it will mess up a child who is being raised by two women, the reasoning goes. A kid needs both a father and a mother, we say. Yet the gays I speak with often wonder how the church can talk about family values when 50-60% of Christian couples divorce. Talk about family values. So a community of people that do not stay married is trying to talk to us about marital morality. How ironic.
In light of the fact that Christians have just as much pre-marital sex and watch just as much porn and divorce just as frequently why arent we more embarrassed to speak out on the issue of homosexual sin? Good question.
One guy said, Its funny how you can claim the grace of God to cover heterosexual sin while saying that homosexual sin is beyond the reach of Gods grace.
That brings me to all the Chick"fil-A drama.
I get why Chick-fil-A day looked so annoying to so many people yesterday. I understand why people have planned a kiss-in this Friday. And I can see why people shake their heads when they read yet another homophobic Facebook post.
Church people ask, why wont our culture repent? My answer: because repentance is a learned behavior. Someone has to model it. I tell parents that its silly to expect a child to repent when they have never seen a parent repent. And its futile to wait for a culture to repent when a culture has never seen the Church repent.
Is the real problem with our culture the unrepentant gay community? No. Its an unrepentant Church.
I am so sorry today for all the hatred that Christians have dished out toward gays. I am so sorry for all of the homophobic sarcasm that has come from the pulpits of Christian ministers. I am so sorry for the way we pick and choose which sins to condemn. I am so sorry that we have claimed to follow Jesus while we neglected widows and orphans, and then engaged in gossip and gluttony. I am so sorry that we have provided such a bad example for the rest of society to follow. Im embarrassed, Im ashamed, and I repent. Im serious. I repent.
Yet Im also concerned that when our culture most needs to hear truth, Christians dont know how to tell it.
Weve come to a dangerous moment in culture, and Christians are ill-equipped to handle it. We have reached the point where disagreement is now seen as hatred. I read an article today where a woman was appealing to Christians to recognize their hateful crimes against the homosexual community. I nodded in agreement, but decided to keep reading to see how she itemized these crimes. Paragraph after paragraph described the hurt and rejection resulting from these offenses, but it took a while to get to the actual crime: Christians claim that homosexuality is a sin. I was stunned. Disagreement was equated with hate.
Christians have a substantial challenge on their hands because every generation and every culture is going to disagree with Gods truth at some point. How interesting that our USAmerican culture considers Christianity to be closed-minded on the issue of sexual morality, while the majority of world religions are in agreement in opposition to the USA position on sexuality. Is USA culture not closed-minded for claiming that all these other religions are wrong? Is it not hypocrisy to say that we will be tolerant with everybody " except the people we consider intolerant. Closed-mindedness is not just a religious thing, its a human thing.
If ever Christians needed some good breath, it is now.
Because we have to kiss this world with the truth of God.
The problem is, no matter how good your kiss, your breath can ruin the whole experience. And no matter how much truth we bring, if it does not drip with grace and humility, it always falls flat.
Im not asking Christians to stop telling the truth, Im asking them to brush their teeth.
What does that look like? The apostle Paul said to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy towards all people. (Titus 3:2)
Can you imagine what would happen if an entire chunk of Christians decided to embrace the Titus 3:2 approach? Will people be staging protests and kiss-ins to protest Chick-fil-A? Maybe. But the way of Jesus is to speak evil of no one. Has Chick-fil-A been bullied? Yes. But the kingdom of Jesus response is to avoid quarreling. Is there more drama to come as our culture becomes increasingly polarized? Of course. But if God is our Father, then we have to start showing the family resemblance, being gentle and showing perfect courtesy. This should have an effect on the way we post our thoughts on Facebook. Or talk to angry people at work. Or wait in line at Chick-fil-A.
You see, we cant shrink back on truth-telling or we dishonor the very Gospel. But when we bring the truth of Jesus we have to do it in the Spirit of Jesus.
Or stop being surprised when our culture doesnt want a kiss.
Re: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #4[Replying to post 1 by Moses Yoder]
In all honesty, it shouldn't matter: it should be wrong or right - end of story.
That said, christians like to apply sins on a sliding scale. It's easy to do so when your beliefs can't be proven.
I could believe in the immortal, para-natural purple Unicorn God that lives on a distant planet. You can't prove it not true, so I believe in it. I can make up whatever I want it to "say" about what's right and wrong. I can justify something that's wrong in a specific instance but not in another instance and you can't prove me wrong.
Such is christianity and every other religion that relies on a supernatural deity.
It probably depends on whom you ask.Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
In all honesty, it shouldn't matter: it should be wrong or right - end of story.
A myriad of reasons, though to be fair, not all christians hate gay people. For those who do, it could be an offense to their "male dominated" religious views; guilt; ignorance fed by fear; doing it because "the bible says so"; mis-understanding of human sexuality....the list is almost endless.If not, why do Christians hate gay people so much?
Many christians practice the gay lifestyle, even as the condemn it, as well as cheat on their spouse (not just wife). Beyond that, the two concepts don't relate to each other correctly.If the two are equally bad, why do so many Christians who would never be gay cheat on their wife?
That said, christians like to apply sins on a sliding scale. It's easy to do so when your beliefs can't be proven.
I could believe in the immortal, para-natural purple Unicorn God that lives on a distant planet. You can't prove it not true, so I believe in it. I can make up whatever I want it to "say" about what's right and wrong. I can justify something that's wrong in a specific instance but not in another instance and you can't prove me wrong.
Such is christianity and every other religion that relies on a supernatural deity.
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Re: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #5Sin is not measured by one against another but against the purity of GOD AND by who does the sinning.[Replying to post 1 by Moses Yoder]
Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
The ultimate disvalue af all sin, means that all sin has the same and ultimate disvalue and suggests a sin considered small by a non-elect puts him in hell and if done by an elect, puts Christ on the cross.
All estimations of another's sins as the worst sins in the world are lousy with self righteousness with no basis in reality, all have an equal and ultimate disvalue.
The damnation of the reprobate is not because their sins are worse than the sins of the sinful elect but damn them because they included a true free will choice to reject GOD's offer of salvation and promise of heaven. The sins of the sinful elect are totally evil and they are as depraved as the reprobate BUT since they accepted GOD's free gift of election and salvation they can be redeemed and sanctified.
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We had an existence with a free will in Sheol before the creation of the physical universe. Here we chose to be able to become holy or to be eternally evil in YHWH's sight. Then the physical universe was created and all sinners were sent to earth.
This theology debunks the need to base Christianity upon the blasphemy of creating us in Adam's sin.
We had an existence with a free will in Sheol before the creation of the physical universe. Here we chose to be able to become holy or to be eternally evil in YHWH's sight. Then the physical universe was created and all sinners were sent to earth.
This theology debunks the need to base Christianity upon the blasphemy of creating us in Adam's sin.
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Re: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #6Moses Yoder wrote:
Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity? If not, why do Christians hate gay people so much? If the two are equally bad, why do so many Christians who would never be gay cheat on their wife?
In my view, heterosexual infidelity is worse, since someone is breaking a vow to their partner.
Now, it seems to me there are two basic reasons many Christians obsess about it
1) They finally find a sin they are NOT interested in committing, and therefore can use it to feel virtuous.
2) They are harboring homosexual feelings themselves, and , well yes, they would gay cheat on their wife.
Look how many televangelists obsessed about gay sex in their sermons, and then got caught in gay scandals. How bout the co-founder of NARTH and the rent boy? You know.. things like that.
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Re: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #7Did you read the article and dismiss it Ted or did you dismiss it and not read it?ttruscott wrote:Sin is not measured by one against another but against the purity of GOD AND by who does the sinning.[Replying to post 1 by Moses Yoder]
Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
The ultimate disvalue af all sin, means that all sin has the same and ultimate disvalue and suggests a sin considered small by a non-elect puts him in hell and if done by an elect, puts Christ on the cross.
All estimations of another's sins as the worst sins in the world are lousy with self righteousness with no basis in reality, all have an equal and ultimate disvalue.
The damnation of the reprobate is not because their sins are worse than the sins of the sinful elect but damn them because they included a true free will choice to reject GOD's offer of salvation and promise of heaven. The sins of the sinful elect are totally evil and they are as depraved as the reprobate BUT since they accepted GOD's free gift of election and salvation they can be redeemed and sanctified.
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I believe that the relevant issue here is repentance. To a Christian, an unrepentant heterosexual infidelist is as bad as an unrepentant homosexual. And a repentant heterosexual infidelist is as forgiven and accepted as a repentant homosexual. However, there are not very many unrepentant heterosexual infidelists trying to infiltrate the church and change the churches' doctrine about sexual fidelity.
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Re: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #9Moses Yoder wrote: I don't normally copy and paste an article but this is great stuff. At the end I have a question.
Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity? If not, why do Christians hate gay people so much? If the two are equally bad, why do so many Christians who would never be gay cheat on their wife?The morning after Chick-fil-A day
AUGUST 2, 2012 BY MIKE PATZ 1 COMMENT
Its the morning after the Chick-fil-A drama and Im still chewing.
I remember the day I was sitting next to an incredibly nice gay guy, enjoying a really good conversation when he dropped the ultimate conversation-killer.
What do you do for a living?
I hate that question. I hate that question because people cant help but size you up when they hear the answer. I hate that question because were already prone to think of ourselves as human doings instead of human beings. I hate that question because of what it does to people when they find out what I do.
Ive often tried to find ways around the question. Ive told people I work with non-profit organizations (this is true). Ive told people that I write (this is true). Ive even told people that I am a spiritual guru that assists people in opening their third eye (I really like this one). For whatever reason, on that day, I just cut to the chase. I work as a pastor of a church.
Everything changed. His next words went something like this:
Listen, Im gay and Im content with who I am. Im sure you are going to say that I was not born this way, and I wont argue the point. For a significant part of my childhood I was violated by a neighbor and then an uncle. Did that play a role in my sexual orientation? Possibly. I also know many people that had a trouble-free childhood and they turned out very happily gay. Regardless of how it occurred, this is who I am now and I make no apologies for the man I have become. If God has a problem with a man who tries to be true to himself, then I have a problem with a God that allows these kinds of things to happen to kids like me in the first place.
I kept thinking how much easier it would have been if I said I was a writer.
Fortunately, Jesus has a way of showing up in the middle of conversations just like these, and on that day He did not disappoint. My friend shared his heart, and I shared mine. Ive never seen people change via argument, which is why I prefer to help people taste and see that the Lord is good.
This is where Christians tend to blow it.
They taste really bad. They serve up some really Biblical truth in some really nauseating ways. They major on minors and minor on majors. They tend to be extremely unaware of their pride, and pride is like bad breath " everybody knows you have it, except for you. Its always easy to scream the loudest about sins you do not personally struggle with.
So why are we yelling?
Im still not sure why Christians are so militant in their opposition of homosexual immorality while they seem to go so mild with their opposition of heterosexual immorality. I hear the concern about homosexuality and the catch phrase is often family values: Imagine how much it will mess up a child who is being raised by two women, the reasoning goes. A kid needs both a father and a mother, we say. Yet the gays I speak with often wonder how the church can talk about family values when 50-60% of Christian couples divorce. Talk about family values. So a community of people that do not stay married is trying to talk to us about marital morality. How ironic.
In light of the fact that Christians have just as much pre-marital sex and watch just as much porn and divorce just as frequently why arent we more embarrassed to speak out on the issue of homosexual sin? Good question.
One guy said, Its funny how you can claim the grace of God to cover heterosexual sin while saying that homosexual sin is beyond the reach of Gods grace.
That brings me to all the Chick"fil-A drama.
I get why Chick-fil-A day looked so annoying to so many people yesterday. I understand why people have planned a kiss-in this Friday. And I can see why people shake their heads when they read yet another homophobic Facebook post.
Church people ask, why wont our culture repent? My answer: because repentance is a learned behavior. Someone has to model it. I tell parents that its silly to expect a child to repent when they have never seen a parent repent. And its futile to wait for a culture to repent when a culture has never seen the Church repent.
Is the real problem with our culture the unrepentant gay community? No. Its an unrepentant Church.
I am so sorry today for all the hatred that Christians have dished out toward gays. I am so sorry for all of the homophobic sarcasm that has come from the pulpits of Christian ministers. I am so sorry for the way we pick and choose which sins to condemn. I am so sorry that we have claimed to follow Jesus while we neglected widows and orphans, and then engaged in gossip and gluttony. I am so sorry that we have provided such a bad example for the rest of society to follow. Im embarrassed, Im ashamed, and I repent. Im serious. I repent.
Yet Im also concerned that when our culture most needs to hear truth, Christians dont know how to tell it.
Weve come to a dangerous moment in culture, and Christians are ill-equipped to handle it. We have reached the point where disagreement is now seen as hatred. I read an article today where a woman was appealing to Christians to recognize their hateful crimes against the homosexual community. I nodded in agreement, but decided to keep reading to see how she itemized these crimes. Paragraph after paragraph described the hurt and rejection resulting from these offenses, but it took a while to get to the actual crime: Christians claim that homosexuality is a sin. I was stunned. Disagreement was equated with hate.
Christians have a substantial challenge on their hands because every generation and every culture is going to disagree with Gods truth at some point. How interesting that our USAmerican culture considers Christianity to be closed-minded on the issue of sexual morality, while the majority of world religions are in agreement in opposition to the USA position on sexuality. Is USA culture not closed-minded for claiming that all these other religions are wrong? Is it not hypocrisy to say that we will be tolerant with everybody " except the people we consider intolerant. Closed-mindedness is not just a religious thing, its a human thing.
If ever Christians needed some good breath, it is now.
Because we have to kiss this world with the truth of God.
The problem is, no matter how good your kiss, your breath can ruin the whole experience. And no matter how much truth we bring, if it does not drip with grace and humility, it always falls flat.
Im not asking Christians to stop telling the truth, Im asking them to brush their teeth.
What does that look like? The apostle Paul said to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy towards all people. (Titus 3:2)
Can you imagine what would happen if an entire chunk of Christians decided to embrace the Titus 3:2 approach? Will people be staging protests and kiss-ins to protest Chick-fil-A? Maybe. But the way of Jesus is to speak evil of no one. Has Chick-fil-A been bullied? Yes. But the kingdom of Jesus response is to avoid quarreling. Is there more drama to come as our culture becomes increasingly polarized? Of course. But if God is our Father, then we have to start showing the family resemblance, being gentle and showing perfect courtesy. This should have an effect on the way we post our thoughts on Facebook. Or talk to angry people at work. Or wait in line at Chick-fil-A.
You see, we cant shrink back on truth-telling or we dishonor the very Gospel. But when we bring the truth of Jesus we have to do it in the Spirit of Jesus.
Or stop being surprised when our culture doesnt want a kiss.
This humanist propaganda piece is getting to be rote in the gay activist quest to crush The Church into submission. Which of course is to be expected in the Western mndest that sees its expression of society as the ultimate reach of mankinds evolution.
Psalm 51 is considered hate speech and homophobia and civil rights violation now.
To even wallow into the mire of describing sin as gay and straight, one is left playing a game with rules not anywhere close to something that comes from a Godly perspective.
This piece is childish at best and academic only in the futile thinking of comparing two wrongs and demanding a right can come from it.
Psalm 51 shows why a man like King David, a murderer. liar and adulterer can be called a "man after God's own heart." Repentance is not seen a hate speech by God.
King David did not tell Nathan the Prophet on the day his murderous adultery was exposed:
"Hey man, I have ADD and ODD and PTSD from all the struggles and trauma I've faced in my life. You have no right to judge me."
"And besides I was either born to commit adultery, with a promiscuity orientation, or maybe I experienced so much rape and killing in my young life that it made me like sex in an unfaithful way. Don't you know the nature of a man Mr. Judgmental Prophet of God?"
As Nathan stands there mouth open in wonderment of the excuse-laden diatribe of David . . . David continues:
"Couldn't God stop me from seeing Bathsheba in the first place? Obviosuly God is OK with my behavior."
The following was not written by a Democrat, a Republican or even a Western secularist OR American "Pastor." Nor was it written by the massive number of people that proved that the hatred towards Christians in the Chick - fil - A issue . . . highlighted from the Chicago Mayors office to Washington DC, is not a joke anymore.
Have mercy on me, O God,
according to your unfailing love;
according to your great compassion
blot out my transgressions.
Wash away all my iniquity
and cleanse me from my sin.
For I know my transgressions,
and my sin is always before me.
Against you, you only, have I sinned
and done what is evil in your sight;
so you are right in your verdict
and justified when you judge.
Surely I was sinful at birth,
sinful from the time my mother conceived me.
Yet you desired faithfulness even in the womb;
you taught me wisdom in that secret place.
Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean;
wash me, and I will be whiter than snow.
Let me hear joy and gladness;
let the bones you have crushed rejoice.
Hide your face from my sins
and blot out all my iniquity.
Create in me a pure heart, O God,
and renew a steadfast spirit within me.
Do not cast me from your presence
or take your Holy Spirit from me.
Restore to me the joy of your salvation
and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.
Then I will teach transgressors your ways,
so that sinners will turn back to you.
Deliver me from the guilt of bloodshed, O God,
you who are God my Savior,
and my tongue will sing of your righteousness.
Open my lips, Lord,
and my mouth will declare your praise.
You do not delight in sacrifice, or I would bring it;
you do not take pleasure in burnt offerings.
My sacrifice, O God, is a broken spirit;
a broken and contrite heart
you, God, will not despise
When it comes to hate and a frenzied irrational fear of someone, look at the common secularist for how Christians are considered and treated. The article offered up in the OP is just another example of how hatred is masked in sheeps clothing as a matter of culture.
The only people we really hear and see yelling is LGBT activists at Catholics and other Christians that dare keep to the narrow path. Where are the Evangelicals running into gay services and screaming at the people in gay churches?
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It is that basic.McCulloch wrote:
I believe that the relevant issue here is repentance. To a Christian, an unrepentant heterosexual infidelist is as bad as an unrepentant homosexual. And a repentant heterosexual infidelist is as forgiven and accepted as a repentant homosexual.
However, there are not very many unrepentant heterosexual infidelists trying to infiltrate the church and change the churches' doctrine about sexual fidelity.
The missing link is a western world now being run by a psychology and culture that sees the ascribing of guilt to immoral behavior, as being as much of a hate crime as physical violence meted out to someone minding their own business walking down the street in the wrong neighborhood.
We are watching all of the warnings of the Evangelical Church about a permissive and lascivious society come to stark reality in the demands of the gay community.
There is an agenda employed by the powers and principalities in high places and it isn't gay.
And here is it voice rising again:
Get out of our way, they replied. This fellow came here as a foreigner, and now he wants to play the judge! Well treat you worse than them.
- Genesis 19:9

