Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity? If not, why do Christians hate gay people so much? If the two are equally bad, why do so many Christians who would never be gay cheat on their wife?The morning after Chick-fil-A day
AUGUST 2, 2012 BY MIKE PATZ 1 COMMENT
Its the morning after the Chick-fil-A drama and Im still chewing.
I remember the day I was sitting next to an incredibly nice gay guy, enjoying a really good conversation when he dropped the ultimate conversation-killer.
What do you do for a living?
I hate that question. I hate that question because people cant help but size you up when they hear the answer. I hate that question because were already prone to think of ourselves as human doings instead of human beings. I hate that question because of what it does to people when they find out what I do.
Ive often tried to find ways around the question. Ive told people I work with non-profit organizations (this is true). Ive told people that I write (this is true). Ive even told people that I am a spiritual guru that assists people in opening their third eye (I really like this one). For whatever reason, on that day, I just cut to the chase. I work as a pastor of a church.
Everything changed. His next words went something like this:
Listen, Im gay and Im content with who I am. Im sure you are going to say that I was not born this way, and I wont argue the point. For a significant part of my childhood I was violated by a neighbor and then an uncle. Did that play a role in my sexual orientation? Possibly. I also know many people that had a trouble-free childhood and they turned out very happily gay. Regardless of how it occurred, this is who I am now and I make no apologies for the man I have become. If God has a problem with a man who tries to be true to himself, then I have a problem with a God that allows these kinds of things to happen to kids like me in the first place.
I kept thinking how much easier it would have been if I said I was a writer.
Fortunately, Jesus has a way of showing up in the middle of conversations just like these, and on that day He did not disappoint. My friend shared his heart, and I shared mine. Ive never seen people change via argument, which is why I prefer to help people taste and see that the Lord is good.
This is where Christians tend to blow it.
They taste really bad. They serve up some really Biblical truth in some really nauseating ways. They major on minors and minor on majors. They tend to be extremely unaware of their pride, and pride is like bad breath " everybody knows you have it, except for you. Its always easy to scream the loudest about sins you do not personally struggle with.
So why are we yelling?
Im still not sure why Christians are so militant in their opposition of homosexual immorality while they seem to go so mild with their opposition of heterosexual immorality. I hear the concern about homosexuality and the catch phrase is often family values: Imagine how much it will mess up a child who is being raised by two women, the reasoning goes. A kid needs both a father and a mother, we say. Yet the gays I speak with often wonder how the church can talk about family values when 50-60% of Christian couples divorce. Talk about family values. So a community of people that do not stay married is trying to talk to us about marital morality. How ironic.
In light of the fact that Christians have just as much pre-marital sex and watch just as much porn and divorce just as frequently why arent we more embarrassed to speak out on the issue of homosexual sin? Good question.
One guy said, Its funny how you can claim the grace of God to cover heterosexual sin while saying that homosexual sin is beyond the reach of Gods grace.
That brings me to all the Chick"fil-A drama.
I get why Chick-fil-A day looked so annoying to so many people yesterday. I understand why people have planned a kiss-in this Friday. And I can see why people shake their heads when they read yet another homophobic Facebook post.
Church people ask, why wont our culture repent? My answer: because repentance is a learned behavior. Someone has to model it. I tell parents that its silly to expect a child to repent when they have never seen a parent repent. And its futile to wait for a culture to repent when a culture has never seen the Church repent.
Is the real problem with our culture the unrepentant gay community? No. Its an unrepentant Church.
I am so sorry today for all the hatred that Christians have dished out toward gays. I am so sorry for all of the homophobic sarcasm that has come from the pulpits of Christian ministers. I am so sorry for the way we pick and choose which sins to condemn. I am so sorry that we have claimed to follow Jesus while we neglected widows and orphans, and then engaged in gossip and gluttony. I am so sorry that we have provided such a bad example for the rest of society to follow. Im embarrassed, Im ashamed, and I repent. Im serious. I repent.
Yet Im also concerned that when our culture most needs to hear truth, Christians dont know how to tell it.
Weve come to a dangerous moment in culture, and Christians are ill-equipped to handle it. We have reached the point where disagreement is now seen as hatred. I read an article today where a woman was appealing to Christians to recognize their hateful crimes against the homosexual community. I nodded in agreement, but decided to keep reading to see how she itemized these crimes. Paragraph after paragraph described the hurt and rejection resulting from these offenses, but it took a while to get to the actual crime: Christians claim that homosexuality is a sin. I was stunned. Disagreement was equated with hate.
Christians have a substantial challenge on their hands because every generation and every culture is going to disagree with Gods truth at some point. How interesting that our USAmerican culture considers Christianity to be closed-minded on the issue of sexual morality, while the majority of world religions are in agreement in opposition to the USA position on sexuality. Is USA culture not closed-minded for claiming that all these other religions are wrong? Is it not hypocrisy to say that we will be tolerant with everybody " except the people we consider intolerant. Closed-mindedness is not just a religious thing, its a human thing.
If ever Christians needed some good breath, it is now.
Because we have to kiss this world with the truth of God.
The problem is, no matter how good your kiss, your breath can ruin the whole experience. And no matter how much truth we bring, if it does not drip with grace and humility, it always falls flat.
Im not asking Christians to stop telling the truth, Im asking them to brush their teeth.
What does that look like? The apostle Paul said to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy towards all people. (Titus 3:2)
Can you imagine what would happen if an entire chunk of Christians decided to embrace the Titus 3:2 approach? Will people be staging protests and kiss-ins to protest Chick-fil-A? Maybe. But the way of Jesus is to speak evil of no one. Has Chick-fil-A been bullied? Yes. But the kingdom of Jesus response is to avoid quarreling. Is there more drama to come as our culture becomes increasingly polarized? Of course. But if God is our Father, then we have to start showing the family resemblance, being gentle and showing perfect courtesy. This should have an effect on the way we post our thoughts on Facebook. Or talk to angry people at work. Or wait in line at Chick-fil-A.
You see, we cant shrink back on truth-telling or we dishonor the very Gospel. But when we bring the truth of Jesus we have to do it in the Spirit of Jesus.
Or stop being surprised when our culture doesnt want a kiss.
Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
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Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #1I don't normally copy and paste an article but this is great stuff. At the end I have a question.
Matthew 16:26
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26 For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul?
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26 For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul?
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Post #91No, I do not equate Paul with God. As I've said, I believe Paul (as with other apostles) was sent by Jesus to share the gospel with people. I further believe the epistles he authored are approved by God.KCKID wrote:Well, to be honest, God never said anything ...the Bible writers did. Furthermore, I can find no text where these writers allude to anything other than the practice of idolatry whenever they reference sexual immorality. That said, I've little doubt that these writers would certainly have been against homosexuality simply by virtue of the fact that a man seen to be taking the passive role of a female (property of the male) would most certainly have met with their disapproval. These people and their ancient and tribal mindsets cannot be used as a reliable guide for we of today. Remember, God did not write the Bible. Nor is the Bible God. It seems a lot of people don't realize this.noshameinChrist wrote:I agree with the "lewd" notation you've provided. You emphasis on whether it was done in "private" versus "public" seems to be misguided. God does not say it is ok to engage in "lewd" behavior privately.KCKID wrote:Many, many people who don't believe in Christ live the same standards that you claim to.noshameinChrist wrote:My standard of living derives from the teachings of Christ. This information is found in scripture, specifically the NT.
But, once again, Christ HIMSELF never said anything about homosexuality. How come it took the writings of someone who never even knew Jesus to tell us what Jesus' beliefs were with regard to homosexuality? And, how come you came to regard this particular author as being the divine mouthpiece for Jesus? My eternal question: since homosexuality is purported by some to be such a dividing and devastating influence within the Christian Church (I personally have not witnessed this) do you not think that Jesus would have alluded to homosexuality at least a teeny weeny bit? I mean, He DID give His views with regard to divorce and remarriage (a definite no-no) which is all but ignored by the Christian Church.noshameinChrist wrote:With regard to sexual sins, the NT refers to adultery, fornication, and homosexuality as being contrary to the doctrine of Christ,
*sigh* How many times does one need to say this before people catch on ...? Romans 1:27 is referring to the lewd and pagan sexual rituals that were connected to idolatry. These rituals included both homosexual and heterosexual practices that were performed in public and were therefore seen to be not only humanly disgusting but also - and more importantly - an affront to God. Most of us would feel the same way today if we were to witness such practices.noshameinChrist wrote:and thus against the will of God. As I mentioned, Romans 1:27 is one such passage.
And we ALL sin whether publicly or privately. It's called 'being human'.noshameinChrist wrote:Sin is sin whether done publicly or privately.
So, you DO equate Paul, a mere man, with God ...? Kinda blasphemous, don't you think? Okay, have it your way.noshameinChrist wrote:Romans 1:27 is a prohibition against homosexual sex as well as other "lewd" acts. This is fact.
You cannot justify sin by saying it is "being human". If that is the case then anything any human does (i.e. murder, rape, etc.) they are by definition simply "being human" and therefore there conduct is ok. Now, I do agree that all have sinned. This is why I think it is vitally important for people to understand the consequences of sin, but to also know that God has made a way for us to be saved notwithstanding the fact that we have been caught up in sin. It is through Jesus Christ that this can be done (John 3:16).
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Post #92Cewakiyelo wrote: [Replying to post 77 by 99percentatheism]
99percentatheism,
Are you sure you are atheist? With comments like this you are going to make our heavenly Father proud. You point about repentance is right on the mark. Keep up these kinds of posts and you will have to change your name to 50percentagnostic.
Ummm, I am employing sarcasm as a debate tactic. Anyone here can claim to be anything they want, even if what they write here contradicts the actuality of their expression.
I am an atheist that believes that Jesus is God and the Creator of the universe.
Is there something wrong with that confession?
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Dantalion wrote:99 please, I'm quoting rules from Leviticus.99percentatheism wrote:Dantalion wrote: Here's my post again
The OT scriptures I refer to, well, basically Leviticus, the same place christian fundies get their gay hatred from.
Don't let cattle graze with other kinds of Cattle (Leviticus 19:19)
Don't have a variety of crops on the same field. (Leviticus 19:19)
Don't wear clothes made of more than one fabric (Leviticus 19:19)
Don't cut your hair nor shave. (Leviticus 19:27)
Any person who curseth his mother or father, must be killed. (Leviticus 20:9)
If a man cheats on his wife, or vise versa, both the man and the woman must die. (Leviticus 20:10).
If a man sleeps with his father's wife... both him and his father's wife is to be put to death. (Leviticus 20:11)
If a man sleeps with his wife and her mother they are all to be burnt to death. (Leviticus 20:14)
If a man or woman has sex with an animal, both human and animal must be killed. (Leviticus 20:15-16).
If a man has sex with a woman on her period, they are both to be "cut off from their people" (Leviticus 20:18)
Psychics, wizards, and so on are to be stoned to death. (Leviticus 20:27)
If a priest's daughter is a whore, she is to be burnt at the stake. (Leviticus 21:9)
People who have flat noses, or is blind or lame, cannot go to an altar of God (Leviticus 21:17-18)
Anyone who curses or blasphemes God, should be stoned to death by the community. (Leviticus 24:14-16)
Don't let cattle graze with other kinds of Cattle (Leviticus 19:19)
Deuteronomy also has some crazy stuff.
Now then, noshameinchrist, we want to know what Jesus said on homosexuality
(well, we already know, he didn't say anything about it, but we'll give you the chance to show us we're wrong).
Jesus never said a word that we couldn't "hate" homosexuality. Not one word. He said we should love our enemies but not homosexuals. So finally, we have found a behavior and a person that a Christian can hate. Right?
So there. Your attempts at logic back at you.
The absurdity of the attempts to homosexualize the Bible and the Christian Church by things not mentioned is a very weak position. especially when you see homosexuality so condemned in the wrotings that followed the Gospels in the New Testament.
I'm very sorry your persecution complex sees this as 'homosexualizing the bible', it's absolutely not intended this way.
Please don't bother people who actually want to debate with your gay obsession.
And I am only referencing the writings of the New testament.
Persecution complex?
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Pearls?Cewakiyelo wrote:And your stance on the matter sounds like a kid that does not want to grow up but is insistent to do as he pleases. Back in the day the black man was held as slaves. A poll of hand would have yielded the popular vote of acceptance for the practice. Just because something is popular does not make it appropriate.KCKID wrote:Being human pretty well equates to 'sin'. If only Jesus is purported to be perfect then how can we be expected to be anything other than sinful? By the way, what IS 'our service' to God that you speak of?Cewakiyelo wrote: If we are looking at this from a Christian standpoint than sin is sin. Whether, a person is gay or a pedophile,or addicted to porn, or an alcoholic, etc.. The things that take us away from our service to God is sin. It matters not how normal it seems for any of us. Regardless how we feel that it is part of our being, and is who we are, it matters not.
You actually take the Genesis story as being literal?Cewakiyelo wrote:Our nature was altered when we ate of the tree of knowledge, and not in a good way. It makes us see these things that urge us as to do things that seem normal. And they are, they are a part of our beings now. But that does not change a thing. It has nothing to do with how normal our desires seem. It has everything with acting upon our sinful desires.
And, it's because we're human that we so often act on those desires. Why is it somehow considered to be wrong being human? We're told that only one person was perfect so as long as we are imperfect we will therefore continue to 'sin'. Why this preoccupation with the word 'sin' that is no less a part of our humanness? When does one consider themselves in a position to condemn other sinners?Cewakiyelo wrote:We can say that we don't have a choice in who we are and the desires we have, and that is true. However, we do have a choice in how we choose to respond to those desires. We can choose to accommodate and act upon them or we can turn away from them, how ever difficult it may be.
Oh dear. That rocks the boat somewhat. We all suddenly became guilty of performing illicit sex. No birth control. No condoms. No recreational sex. Do you realize what you just said?Cewakiyelo wrote:The purpose of intercourse is to bring life into the world. If it is done for any other reason than it is for the sole purpose of personal gratification.
May I ask for a show of hands from those who don't perform sex for personal gratification but from obligation? May I ask for a show of hands from all of those who perform sex merely to please God?Cewakiyelo wrote:Those things which are for the purpose of personal gratification are not being done to please God.
Again ...may I ask for a show of hands from those who perform sex for the purpose of raising up God? What does that even mean . . .?Cewakiyelo wrote:So regardless if it is adultery, or porn addiction, or alcoholism, drug addiction, or homosexuality, if it is not done for the purpose of raising God up, than it is tearing God down.
Sounds little more than religious rhetoric to me.Cewakiyelo wrote:When we cater to our sins, what ever they are, we are being selfish and God wants that we should be selfless. We are not to live for our ways and our will we are to live for His ways and by the will of His Spirit.
As for Genesis, I do believe it to a great degree. It is pretty obvious when looking at the world that something occurred to change a portion of mankind to believe much differently than the rest of mankind. We can see that European descent has a very different way of looking at the world. We see it as something to be controlled and we take take take claiming it as our own. We then demand that others give us tribute if they should want some of what we have gathered up. Where as the majority of the other cultures in the world do not have the same sort of beliefs. The do not see the world as something to own. The do not seek to control it. They see them selves as a part of the natural world, needing to work with it rather than against it. Genesis claims that this occurred because of the tree of knowledge. The scriptures say that the knowledge was false. So man is acting upon understanding that is not natural. It goes against nature.
You cry foul that you should have to restrain your desires because it is part of the natural human experience. But if a rapist were to follow their desire and raped you, you would again cry foul and claim they had no right. Your argue for the freedom to do as one pleases so long as it does not adversely effect you. It matters not if your actions adversely effects others. Now you might like to believe that your actions do not adversely effect others but you would be wrong. If others are able to see or hear your actions or beliefs they are affected and can learn from that. If those lessons yield to following suit you have effected those people. Our acceptance of infidelity, porn, drug addictions, prostitution, homosexuality, greed, etc... teaches the next generation that it is all appropriate. So if you want to argue that everything goes because it is human nature than don't cry and just accept it when your family or friends are killed because it was what someone else had desired to do. If that is how they get their kicks so it must be OK. Don't make yourself out to be a hypocrite in seeking justice for their crimes, instead fight for their rights to follow their desires and applaud them for having done so.
You mentioned to noshameinChrist that Jesus did not mention homosexuality. Indirectly he actually did. He taught what marriage was intended to be.Jesus lays out the understanding of marriage to be between a man and a woman and they shall become one flesh. A man and a man can not become one flesh nor can a woman and a woman become one flesh. So while Jesus does not speak directly about homosexuality he did speak directly to the issue of what a union between two people should consist of and what its purpose is.Matthew 19:Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning made them male and female, 5 and said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh?
Even if Jesus had directly stated that homosexuality is wrong, it is pretty clear by your words that, you would not care. You want to do as you please not as any other, including God, should have you do. Well, you do have free will. It's your party and you can die if you want to, so die if you want to.
Keep them safe.
This generation that has become a majority in support of homosexuality is the offspring of the most licentious generation in centuries, if not millenia. The rise of support for homosexuality has been attached to a rejection of God and an embracing of "Do as thou wilt, but harm none." And of course, a licentious populace is spreading disease and death within its "human rights campaign."
Now, also, aren't "suicide rates in the gay community" always a concern? I doubt highly that many of them can always be blamed on conservative Christians anymore.More people now die of suicide than in car accidents, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, which published the findings in Fridays issue of its Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report.
It is the baby boomer group where we see the highest rates of suicide, said the C.D.C.s deputy director, Ileana Arias. There may be something about that group, and how they think about life issues and their life choices that may make a difference.
Preliminary research at Rutgers suggests that the risk for suicide is unlikely to abate for future generations. Changes in marriage, social isolation and family roles mean many of the pressures faced by baby boomers will continue in the next generation, Dr. Phillips said.
Their lives are configured a little differently than it has been in the past for that age group, Dr. Arias said. It may not be that they are more sensitive or that they have a predisposition to suicide, but that they may be dealing with more.
- http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/03/healt ... .html?_r=0
Maybe when the hair dye, plastic surgery, psycho-therapy, Viagara and indulging every selfish desire . . . doesn't make one's life "worthwhile" there is only two options left?
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Re: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #95Is it only sexual sins from the OT or all sins from the OT, ref Dantalions listnoshameinChrist wrote:Homosexual sex (just as is the case with other sexual sins in the OT) is still sin. Christ offers grace and truth through His sacrifice on the cross (John 3:16). As a Christian, it is my job to proclaim truth in love based on God's Word (John 17:17), I cannot control, nor am I responsible for, your choice to reject His Word. However, please be assured that all will be judged by His Word (which includes those that were sent by Him - His witnesses the apostles) according to John 12:48.Allahakbar wrote:Not a SINGLE word aboutnoshameinChrist wrote:Allahakbar wrote:Not just yet.noshameinChrist wrote:Quid pro quo? Ok. In Matthew 28:18-20 says: "And Jesus came and spake unto them saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth. Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the father, and of the son, and of the holy ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: lo I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen"Allahakbar wrote:Perhaps you could supply the appropriate passages quoting Jesus?noshameinChrist wrote:I don't believe I am "shifting" at all. If you would like to share the OT scriptures you are referring to then maybe I can respond with more clarity. As it stands, based on my knowledge of scripture, NT does not prohibit or otherwise speak against "linen" and "shellfish". However, the doctrine of Christ DOES mention prohibitions against sexual immorality of which adultery, fornication, and homosexuality are a part.Dantalion wrote:Yeah he's shifting like crazy.Allahakbar wrote:So is eating shellfish then and wearing a linen/wool blend, are you serious?noshameinChrist wrote: If you are asking whether Jesus said anything directly about homosexuality, no he did not. He also never said anything about Beastiality, yet it is a sin. Both are sins based on teaching originally found in the Old Testament.
At first, noshameinChrist, when confronted with the other directions in Leviticus, you said you knew the difference between the OT and the NT and you agree with the teaching of Jesus. Fair enough.
But when asked where Jesus made claims about homosexuality, you then shifted back to the OT.
So ehm, you really need to be honest here.
The same text you use to judge gay people with, specifically says wearing mixed fabrics and eating shellfish are forbidden, amongst many other weird or misogynistic things.
So again the question, do you also obey these things ?
If not, why not ?
To be pleasing to God a person must be willing to let these things go.
This passage is one that establishes Jesus' authority.
your turn for the OT passage.
This is your claimThe passage you posted made no mention of any of that. Please try again.However, the doctrine of Christ DOES mention prohibitions against sexual immorality of which adultery, fornication, and homosexuality are a part.
Perhaps you could supply the appropriate passages quoting Jesus?
Oh, I see. Let's try this again. After this, please provide the OT scripture you promised:
First, allow me to say that the "doctrine" of Christ is not limited to the words Jesus spoke while on earth. The witnesses of Jesus, of which Paul was included, were commissioned to spread Jesus words. This is what Jesus directed in Matthew 28:18-20, as well as Mark 16:15-16. In fact, in John 17:17-21 Jesus specifically prays on this matter.
Hence, the passage in Romans 1:27 derives from an apostle (witness) of Jesus, and is therefore a part of the "doctrine" of Christ.
Your turn.Not a single word of the NT is a witness statement.However, the doctrine of Christ DOES mention prohibitions against sexual immorality of which adultery, fornication, and homosexuality are a part.
Dantalion posted the appropriate OT passages.
My grandsons would be amused at your attempts. Jesus never said a word abot homosexuality, not a single word.
Unfortunately for you and 99 and every religious person on here who has claimed their right to bigotry based upon the teachings of Jesus, YOU FAILED.
But of course if it is only the sexual sins then I will require you to quote the passage containing Jesus' words to that effect.The OT scriptures I refer to, well, basically Leviticus, the same place christian fundies get their gay hatred from.
Don't let cattle graze with other kinds of Cattle (Leviticus 19:19)
Don't have a variety of crops on the same field. (Leviticus 19:19)
Don't wear clothes made of more than one fabric (Leviticus 19:19)
Don't cut your hair nor shave. (Leviticus 19:27)
Any person who curseth his mother or father, must be killed. (Leviticus 20:9)
If a man cheats on his wife, or vise versa, both the man and the woman must die. (Leviticus 20:10).
If a man sleeps with his father's wife... both him and his father's wife is to be put to death. (Leviticus 20:11)
If a man sleeps with his wife and her mother they are all to be burnt to death. (Leviticus 20:14)
If a man or woman has sex with an animal, both human and animal must be killed. (Leviticus 20:15-16).
If a man has sex with a woman on her period, they are both to be "cut off from their people" (Leviticus 20:18)
Psychics, wizards, and so on are to be stoned to death. (Leviticus 20:27)
If a priest's daughter is a whore, she is to be burnt at the stake. (Leviticus 21:9)
People who have flat noses, or is blind or lame, cannot go to an altar of God (Leviticus 21:17-18)
Anyone who curses or blasphemes God, should be stoned to death by the community. (Leviticus 24:14-16)
Don't let cattle graze with other kinds of Cattle (Leviticus 19:19)
Deuteronomy also has some crazy stuff.
Now then, noshameinchrist, we want to know what Jesus said on homosexuality
(well, we already know, he didn't say anything about it, but we'll give you the chance to show us we're wrong).
Thank you for that. We've been saying exactly that for 10 pages. Jesus never said that homosexuality is wrong.Cewakiyelo wrote: Even if Jesus had directly stated that homosexuality was wrong...........................
Game over.
He doesn't mention, in that verse, the purpose for bringing life into the world. (see my sig)Cewakiyelo wrote: Wrong. It speaks of marriage. Jesus spoke of marriage when asked about divorce. Jesus pointed to what God established as marriage and what that purpose was intended for, that being to bring life into the world
In which Jesus does NOT prohibit homosexuality or homosexual acts or homosexual marriage. (see my sig)99percentatheism wrote: And I am only referencing the writings of the New testament.
So you might as well find another topic.
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Show one affirmative or positive word about homosexuality in the Gospels or anywhere else in the New Testament. Jesus was a Torah observant Jew. I doubt highly that His views on Sabbath observance can be grounds for affirming homosexuality.
Do you really believe that behavior that is an abomination is going to suddenly be celebrated and condoned in the New Testament by what is not said about it?
Show one affirmative or positive word about homosexuality in the Gospels or anywhere else in the New Testament. Jesus was a Torah observant Jew. I doubt highly that His views on Sabbath observance can be grounds for affirming homosexuality.
Do you really believe that behavior that is an abomination is going to suddenly be celebrated and condoned in the New Testament by what is not said about it?
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Post #97Don't cut your hair nor shave. (Leviticus 19:27)99percentatheism wrote: [Replying to post 94 by Allahakbar]
Show one affirmative or positive word about homosexuality in the Gospels or anywhere else in the New Testament. Jesus was a Torah observant Jew. I doubt highly that His views on Sabbath observance can be grounds for affirming homosexuality.
Do you really believe that behavior that is an abomination is going to suddenly be celebrated and condoned in the New Testament by what is not said about it?
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Re: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #98Allahakbar wrote:Don't cut your hair nor shave. (Leviticus 19:27)99percentatheism wrote: [Replying to post 94 by Allahakbar]
Show one affirmative or positive word about homosexuality in the Gospels or anywhere else in the New Testament. Jesus was a Torah observant Jew. I doubt highly that His views on Sabbath observance can be grounds for affirming homosexuality.
Do you really believe that behavior that is an abomination is going to suddenly be celebrated and condoned in the New Testament by what is not said about it?
Let's start at the beginning of Leviticus 19 shall we?
Hmm, "mother and father."The Lord said to Moses,
Speak to the entire assembly of Israel and say to them: Be holy because I, the Lord your God, am holy.
Each of you must respect your mother and father, and you must observe my Sabbaths. I am the Lord your God.
No father and father huh?
No mother and mother right?
The answer to the OP is certainly yes wouldn't you say?
Now in all accuracy, we see that Leviticus was directed to the Israelites and not the pagans. So I guess we could agree that homosexuality is something that pagans do wouldn't you agree?
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Re: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #99READ MY SIG.99percentatheism wrote:Allahakbar wrote:Don't cut your hair nor shave. (Leviticus 19:27)99percentatheism wrote: [Replying to post 94 by Allahakbar]
Show one affirmative or positive word about homosexuality in the Gospels or anywhere else in the New Testament. Jesus was a Torah observant Jew. I doubt highly that His views on Sabbath observance can be grounds for affirming homosexuality.
Do you really believe that behavior that is an abomination is going to suddenly be celebrated and condoned in the New Testament by what is not said about it?
Let's start at the beginning of Leviticus 19 shall we?
Hmm, "mother and father."The Lord said to Moses,
Speak to the entire assembly of Israel and say to them: Be holy because I, the Lord your God, am holy.
Each of you must respect your mother and father, and you must observe my Sabbaths. I am the Lord your God.
No father and father huh?
No mother and mother right?
The answer to the OP is certainly yes wouldn't you say?
Now in all accuracy, we see that Leviticus was directed to the Israelites and not the pagans. So I guess we could agree that homosexuality is something that pagans do wouldn't you agree?
It never mentioned homosexuals.
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Re: Is homosexuality worse than heterosexual infidelity?
Post #100Wrong. Jesus did in fact say that the purpose of marriage was to bring life into the world. The two shall become one flesh is how he said it. That is to say the sperm, the flesh of a man, and the egg, the flesh of a woman, joining and becoming one flesh, that being a child.Allahakbar wrote:Thank you for that. We've been saying exactly that for 10 pages. Jesus never said that homosexuality is wrong.Cewakiyelo wrote: Even if Jesus had directly stated that homosexuality was wrong...........................
Game over.He doesn't mention, in that verse, the purpose for bringing life into the world. (see my sig)Cewakiyelo wrote: Wrong. It speaks of marriage. Jesus spoke of marriage when asked about divorce. Jesus pointed to what God established as marriage and what that purpose was intended for, that being to bring life into the world
Furthermore, while you say that Jesus does not speak about homosexuality he in fact does....
Jesus says that a man shall not divorce his wife except in the event of fornication. Let us see what fornication is defined as. ...Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
The word that is translated as fornicate is the Greek word
So you can try to make believe that Jesus did not say that homosexuality was wrong but in fact the scriptures indicate that he said it was wrong as well as all forms of fornication. What Jesus did not do, is use the word homosexuality. Instead he used the word porneia to cover many forms of sexual immorality rather than just listing them one at a time.Strong's Concordance
Transliteration: porneia
Biblical usage:
1) illicit sexual intercourse
a) adultery, fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals etc.
b) sexual intercourse with close relatives; Lev. 18
c) sexual intercourse with a divorced man or woman; Mk. 10:11,12
2) metaph. the worship of idols
a) of the defilement of idolatry, as incurred by eating the sacrifices offered to idols

