I was talking to my Grandma a couple of days ago, trying to get information on our family tree, which I'm researching. Just to add some background, I got engaged last month, and out of the blue, my Grandma asked me what religion I'll be joining when I get married. I said I'm not religious. Then she asked me what religion my fiance is. I told her he's not any religion, like me. She then told me that I have to believe in God, because there is one. I didn't know what to say--I never said I don't believe (as an agnostic, I have no idea), but I cannot stand religion being shoved down my throat. Then she tried to guilt me because we're going away to get married, but that's another story.
The strange thing is, she's not even terribly religious. But once when I was visiting her before, I mentioned that the Bible isn't really a "good book," and that it has all kinds of terrible stories in it. She gave me the dirtiest look. Since my family has got an inkling that I'm not at all religious (I never really was before, but now that I've disagreed with some things about religion out loud, that seems to make a difference), they've been doing little things like giving me a bible (oddly, a children's one), making little comments, etc.
I'm going to visit them this weekend, and I don't know how to deal with this. Any suggestions?